when stopping and going in expway traffic gears slip -jerk

I bought the extended warranty as I am a fool and have had this same problem on two other odysseys. i needed a van affordable and this one fit me. i am the fool. the extended warranty will replace transmission with salvaged non warrantied transmission. The starter went out as well and they are replacing it new as i guess they dont rebuild those? I am pretty much screwed but I will trade it off for a TOYOTA as soon as it is patched. I will NEVER AGAIN IN MY LIFE BUY A HONDA. i AM SICK AT CAR SALESMEN. I AM SO THANKFUL I DONT WORK AT A CAR LOT. I WOULD HATE TO BE THAT KIND OF PERSON LYING TO PEOPLE WHEN WE DEPEND ON OUR RIDES FOR EVERYTHING AND NEED THEM TO BE RELIABLE INVESTMENT. I WILL PRAY FOR CAR DEALERSHIPS AND CAR SALESMEN AND THE WARRANTY COMPANIES FROM NOW ON AS THEY NEED PRAYERS. AMEN